Sex!!!!!

Women like that.

(Sorry, I couldn't resist on saying something dumb.)

Thanks, Dre, I think you just helped my cause tonight!!! LMAO!!!

my wife had suggested: If she has a charm bracelet, to get her a charm that is the opposite color of the rest of the charms she already has, IF you are serious about being with her. Also, unless it's an Italian Charm Bracelet: find something that relates to an inside joke or event.

Me? I start planning stuff about a month out. I think back about stuff she seemed really interested in, try to plan the night or the entire day around that one or those 3 ideas. Then, of course, a hotel comes in handy, or a really cheap babysitter.

Unless you hafta worry about a babysitter. Do you need a babysitter? No, I mean for YOU? j/k, dude. Good luck with the planning. Let us know how it went.

dude chevman probably was the biggest pimp in high school and college...

Listen to 72chevman, he is wise.

Thank You Rebecca. Things I listed above have made the last 19 years easy for me. Face it, I am a guy, I will screw up. I try and keep 1 or 2 brownie points ahead.

Remember guys, treat your woman's best friend as good as you treat your woman. You want her on your side when your woman goes to complain about you, and correct me if I am wrong Rebecca, you are going to complain about us.

And no, I was not pimping, (Damn did I say that word) I am almost 40. I was brought up in a religious house with 3 sisters and had no money or time for girls. I joined the AF at 19 and still had no time or money because I loved to race cars and hunt, both are expensive habits. I did have a few girls in the base dorms that would booty call me every so often though. Ahh the memories of coed living. Hope my wife doesn't find this post.

what did u end up doing any idea?

Well I put a deposit or hold on a Couples massage plus facials at Safety Harbor, in Clearwater. That'll be about a $400+ bill. Plus I'll do some flowers probably and maybe some Bling!! But not the bling you like 4drgt, not quite yet!

the women love the bling, i got my gf a ring for xmas she loves it and has it on all the time i havent seen her without it yet, wow with the 400 you spend on the back rubs and such you could put a downpayment on a wedding ring, nice choice though she should love it and plus if you go with her it will be even better, look at the good side you might have some goodlooking woman rubing your back and all over you and your gf cant say anything about it lol

Funny part was, is that we were deciding together on the massages. And a list of therapist shows up on the computer. And you can choose female, male, or the specific person by name. She goes you want female...I was like, yes, definitely female. Downpayment on a ring. That is far from a down payment on the ring I want to buy!!

you allready got one picked out lol, nice i had my eye on myn for a while, nice choice i would enjoy a nice rub down from a sexy woman lol

well then you must have been smooth chevman... ya modding cars is an expensive habit... especially when you pay for a lot of stuff outside of the car... insurance, gas (killer), clothes, sometimes food... that all adds up pretty quickly... school stuff and sport stuff is paid for though, thats nice cuz school is about 7K a year and football pads and basketball shoes add up...

marriage.... thats a scary thought. Im gonna pass for now