I was checking my spark plugs today since theres was nothing to do, and they had oil in them, well at least the front one did in the middle, then i saw it and i got mad cuz i dont think its good, what should i do?

Oil on the outside, valve cover gaskets would be in order
Oil on the inside, thats a bit more involved, probably valve seals

you think that stop oil leak stuff would work

No.

Are you losing an abnormal amount of oil (more then a quart every 3,000 miles)? Is the car smoking on start up, under load(as when you get on it to accellerate)? If you answer no to all of those questions I wouldn't worry about it. Oil on the plug can be from worn valve guides to broken ring, busted piston or scored cylinder walls. The valve guides is the easiest fix and the sign for that is usually smoke on start up. The rest require engine tear down to correct.

no to all of them. all good i got scared a minute there, hey herc you saounded like one of those game host people, or something like that, is there a DIY for the valve guides?

I might have one on my page you'll have to take a look.

Is it oil, or just something slimy and oily? Because its more likely that coolant would get into your cylinders and foul the plugs

its black slimmy and oily, i think it felt like sand