So i just got a phone call from my girlfriends mom, shes all mad and yelling and she is accusing me of smoking pot. Well the story is, my girlfriend got home late from a friends house higher than crap and so her mom thinks i smoke pot to and is calling me accusing me and saying i have everything to do with it, idk what to do, ive never touched that crap in my life, i refuse to, i dont even like dating someone who smokes pot, but i love her to much, been with her for about 3 years, so now her mom is pissed at me and says i cant come see her for atleast a week, and says i cant even talk to her, thats BS, i should atleast be able to talk to her. Her mom is bipolar i swear, she snapped one second and is a major *dog* and then the next minute shes cool and calm, i understand shes mad about catching her smoking pot but still to take it out on me and blame me? what do i do! sorry for my rant but i just needed to vent!

Mom needs to hit the pot to calm down.

x2 steve, how old is her mother, because i bet her mother has tryed before she just wont admit it

55.

Just wait a couple days and do a surprise visit and talk to the mom, by that time she would have calm down. Don't try to talk to her now because when a women is mad its very difficult to get a point across.

Tell her you'll take a drug test, if she pays for it!
My pops is 62, he smokes the dope occassionaly, so do his buddies.

thats lol right there

I agree with Dre, wait a couple of days, cool down time always seems to help at least a little bit

Yah, offering to take a drug test is pretty foolproof.
Just sit down with the mom and tell her what you told us man.
Honesty is usually the best approach.

walk in there, tokin' a blunt and ask her if she wants a hit. Or pack her a nice big bowl and tell her it will improve her quality of life!!

I won't really get into the discussion of 'weed: good or bad?' but like was mentioned before give it a day or two, call her and ask her if you could come over and talk to her about the situation and explain your side of the story. Be mature, this will show her mother that you care for the girl and that you are not just another whiny teenager in lust who wants to get his own way.

Take a drug test? Make her go with, this is a very easy solution.

Take a drug test, walk it over there, shove it in her face.

And then dump the girl for being a pot head.

/\ and here is why

FIRST Tell her what her mom said (if she doesnt know)

Usually the girl will miss you enough to cop up to it being her fault and the mom should listen if not:

Tell the mother you will take a drug test whenever she wants to prove you aren't a druggy.

If at any point she gets emotional or starts to hurt or cry or w.e her mom will become motherly and start accepting pretty much anything. Bi polar or not it will work. Usually with women for some reason sadness over comes alot.

(Better be 100% sure she deff wants you more on this one) If she really cares about you tell her your breaking up with her if she keeps smoking. IF she does care she will either:

1.) Lie and say she will stop
2.) Cry get emotional and say she needs you more then pot.

Usually 2 happens if she is really attached.

If you are wrong:
1.) Throw you to the curb

Happened with me when I dropped the girl off completely wasted haha.

Her mom blamed me even though I don't get plastered Ill drink but not to that extent. Said I couldn't see her or w.e. Then girl broke down admitted it was her fault and the mom listened )idk she said the whole parent divorce makes her do that stuff) Then the mom tried to apologize to me and I told them both I wanted nothing more to do with that drama.


Rule #1 Don't get attached.

her mom is effing psyco. no resoning with her trust me. she called the cops on me and they came to my work today looking to search my car. i let them because i had nothing to worry about, but owell, things should work out sooner or later. otherwise idk what ill do, i love her to much to just drop her over this.

She called the cops? Its crazy! I'm more supprised the cops even came out over that.