this is completly off the car or anything sub, but i feel like maybe if i get it off my chest and maybe some can relate to this.


yesterday i found out that my girl friend of 3years has been cheating on me with another guy. i confronted her about it and she told me the truth, we was at school and the guy that she had been messing with walked up and put him arm around her, we had been sharing lockers and i said F**k this im tired of this. i threw her books out and he started mouthing off, i threw some papers in her face and called her a whore, he said something like dont do that, and out of know where i hit him, i hit him almost 7 times and busted his nose before the teachers could break it up. in the end i got suspended and he did too, but shes with him now and it hurts to know that i wasted 3 years with her, and she goes and does this. i also tried to commit suicide last nite. i tried to od on 10 valium 10's and 7 hydrocodone 7.5's but was rushed to the hostpital when my mom found me unconsious. i had my stomach pumped and charcoal put in me, in the end it didnt work and im here again hurting. i cant understand what i done. ive always been so good to her, do anything for her. but i guess ill get over it.

Man, take care of yourself. Life goes on and new opportunities await. How could she be that great if she was lying to you and sneaking behind your back? You've got many years ahead of you... besides, do you plan on going to college? That's when the real fun starts.

We're going to have a GP meet this spring, eh?

Hey man, I am sorry to hear about your girl. it sucks when they do that to you, but you know what? Sometime things like that are for the best. I know that 3 years is a long time, but think about what would have happened if you had gotten married and then she did this to you. Not only would it have been worse emotionally, but then the financial problems and whatnot. Anyway, just hang in there man. It all goes away in time. I know it doesn't seem like it, but it will. Just know that there are people here that care about the well-being of each other. If you ever need anything don't hesitate to PM me.

Im assuming this was in high school, right? While the wasted time is a horrible feeling, there are so many other women out there. Please remember that she is but a girl, and most likely always will be.

What she did is irrehensible, but theres a whole lot more worse women out there that are so much more conniving.

This hurts for now, but the right woman is out there, and you'll never get to meet her if you're dead.

I would like to recommend counseling, dude, cause suicide, whether successful or attempted, is a very serious and final solution to a very temporary problem.

Also, Im surprised that the hospital released you so quick. In the Army, if one of my Soldiers attempted suicide, I wouldnt see him/her again for at LEAST a week for observation and such.

I am glad to see that you are released and are physically alright. Keep us up to date on everything, ok?

Ouch, dude...

I know it hurts when you've been betrayed like that, but like the others have said, you've got a community here that's willing to help if we can and life's got more to offer.

I don't have any easy solutions, but bear with it and remember you're not alone.

Been there, done that. Not fun.

Youre going to have everyone telling you to "Just get over it" and things of that nature, and to be honest, they are right. But its hard man, and a lot of guys have been through it too. I had a girl cheat on me that i had been with through almost all of high school and then i found out the end of my junior year and it was completely devastating.

I sulked around for about a year until i met my current girlfriend who i have been with for about a year now and couldnt be happier. Trust me, things will get better.

There is a light at the end of the tunnel, even if you cant see it at the moment.

You dont wanna be with that cheating whore anyways, more money can go to the GP now.

My girlfriend has cheated on me I think 7 times now in 3 years.

I've felt/seen/hurt just as you have.

I was admitted to Aurora Psychiatric of Wauwatosa for 1 week because I jumped into the local river trying to drown myself. (was actually my paren't s divorce that upset me but it's still suicide)


We're all here for you. This wasn't your fault so don't think like it was.


p.s. I envy the fact that you can throw a punch. In a fight, I'd be about as useful as a pool floaty...

sry to here that dude... there's plenty of girls out there.

Once you get to college you won't know where to go because there will be so many hot girls there, plus unlike high school where you HAVE to go... college has more girls that want to be there and that are smarter and probably more mature

i went through the same thing ... everything that you have ... you shouldnt have treated her like that though.

thanks guys, it helps but i forgot to mention that im still on house arrest on a bugus charge. thats the worst part, tht i cant even go anywhere. but i get off the 17th so maybe after then life will start to look up. and rook when is the spring ride? that kinda cheered me up a bit.

sorry to hear about the loss man, i would hate to think what would happen if that happend to me and my GF
but look at the bright side, you did kick some ass buddy!!

ps if yall wait till summer ill join you!!!! for the meet! it could be the start of the GP.net meeting

im really down for this meeting !! i cant wait ... hopefully i can go

yeah man, im gonna fight him again after the 17th that is if im still mad. prolly wont be prolly find someone else.

Why fight him? They're equally to blame, her mainly since she was still with you. Doing stuff like that is only going to make the issue worse and it won't help you in the long run.