thanks for all the support guys, it really helps me, i just hope i can move on and forget this. hopefully find someone that i can truley be happy with and trust. and as for the ride. i cant wait. that will be very exciting, but there is another down time in my life in April. April 17th is my dads birthday, but he passed away 6 years ago, he was murdered and we still havent got any answers.

I feel for ya man, I was in the same situation 2 months ago, dated this girl i loved all through highschool, she went to University 45 minutes away, I drove down every weekend and knew something was goin on and if I questioned it she would get upset cause she didnt think I trusted her...we broke up, said she didnt have feelings for me anymore and 3 days later I find out shes been sleepin with him and they're dating. it's def not worth hurting yourself over though dude, much more to live for than just one pathetic unfaithful girl. really sorry to hear about your dad as well, that must be especially hard. I was watchin this video on break and thought it was just what you needed to get a good laugh, so check it out, you won't be disappointed.

dont see a link lol.

thanks man. everyone here is very supporting, im glad all the GP members helped me out. thanks alot to everyone of yall. i cant wait to meet yall in person. hoepfully i can meet everyone on this site one day

its another thread in this section. FUNNIEST video ever. NSFW

oh alrighty, got it, and replied

Man, she's not worth it plus there are alot more girls in the world to see. I know because I've been in your situation and thats why Im on probation until May 5, 2008 because of what happen a while back with this girl. Take care of yourself. I know its going to take a while to get over it but do what I do and get another girl that is into you. You can't put stress on yourself although I would of did the same thing far as the guy because im a violent person .

But like I said, eventually you will get over it and I know it hurts but just move on and don't say anything to her because that will give her something to tell her friends and women like to run stuff in the ground especially when its a group of them together.(I call them male bashers when they get in a group dicussion)

lol. thanks man, i was planning on doing more damage to him then i did, i wanted to rip his f-ing neck off.

nah don't do that man, just let it be, hard I know, we've all been in this situation but if you still fight him that shows to her that you still care about her, be the 'cool' guy and not the dirty sleazy one who stole a girl from an awesome guy. If you really want to hurt her feelings, which I know I did cause of what happened, then kickin his bum won't change whats happened, make it seem to her that you've moved on and that you don't care. This way she'll feel cheated too because she thought u cared about her and that you would put up a bigger fight. And man, play the single life for atleast a litle bit, 3 yrs is a long time to be gettin ur jewels wet by the same old tuna.

I know the feeling. I broke up with my ex-fience after over two years together, found out she cheated on my with my friend of all ppl. Needless to say thats unforgivable and it was hard, but thankfully we were not married. Its been over a year now and see that this is better this way.

Best thing to do is walk away from both of them. Ignore them, and move on. There are PLENTY of other fish in the sea. You will find more and go through some more heartaches before you find the right one. It gets better and easier as time moves on.

my recommendation? Live life for awhile. Then find a redheaded country girl from the middle of nowhere Texas. Thems are keepers.

What Rick said...you'll find Ms. Right sooner or later, but until then, date as many Ms. Right Nows as you can find, and enjoy your life!

Aside from that, instead of hitting him, I would've asked him how it felt to be just another tool in the box, and walked off, laughing...besides, who's to say she won't cheat on him with someone else? At any rate, it's not worth harming yourself over, trust me on that.

Once a cheater, always a cheater.

I know how that feels. You're not the first or last guy to go through that. You're young so think about all the women out there in the summer dressed lovely.

I'm not trying create any problem. I don't understand why you attack him if you don't know him. I don't get it why guy attack other guy who sleep with girl. It was clearly girl's fault but not stranger. I date girl few months who cheat on me but I don't know who is this guy. I don't attack him like that. He found out that she date with me so we both dump this girl. She lost two guys in same time. I have seen cheater show that guy attack other guy who don't know each other. It doesn't make sense to me.