this is completly off the car or anything sub, but i feel like maybe if i get it off my chest and maybe some can relate to this.


yesterday i found out that my girl friend of 3years has been cheating on me with another guy. i confronted her about it and she told me the truth, we was at school and the guy that she had been messing with walked up and put him arm around her, we had been sharing lockers and i said F**k this im tired of this. i threw her books out and he started mouthing off, i threw some papers in her face and called her a whore, he said something like dont do that, and out of know where i hit him, i hit him almost 7 times and busted his nose before the teachers could break it up. in the end i got suspended and he did too, but shes with him now and it hurts to know that i wasted 3 years with her, and she goes and does this. i also tried to commit suicide last nite. i tried to od on 10 valium 10's and 7 hydrocodone 7.5's but was rushed to the hostpital when my mom found me unconsious. i had my stomach pumped and charcoal put in me, in the end it didnt work and im here again hurting. i cant understand what i done. ive always been so good to her, do anything for her. but i guess ill get over it.

Man, take care of yourself. Life goes on and new opportunities await. How could she be that great if she was lying to you and sneaking behind your back? You've got many years ahead of you... besides, do you plan on going to college? That's when the real fun starts.

We're going to have a GP meet this spring, eh?

Hey man, I am sorry to hear about your girl. it sucks when they do that to you, but you know what? Sometime things like that are for the best. I know that 3 years is a long time, but think about what would have happened if you had gotten married and then she did this to you. Not only would it have been worse emotionally, but then the financial problems and whatnot. Anyway, just hang in there man. It all goes away in time. I know it doesn't seem like it, but it will. Just know that there are people here that care about the well-being of each other. If you ever need anything don't hesitate to PM me.

Im assuming this was in high school, right? While the wasted time is a horrible feeling, there are so many other women out there. Please remember that she is but a girl, and most likely always will be.

What she did is irrehensible, but theres a whole lot more worse women out there that are so much more conniving.

This hurts for now, but the right woman is out there, and you'll never get to meet her if you're dead.

I would like to recommend counseling, dude, cause suicide, whether successful or attempted, is a very serious and final solution to a very temporary problem.

Also, Im surprised that the hospital released you so quick. In the Army, if one of my Soldiers attempted suicide, I wouldnt see him/her again for at LEAST a week for observation and such.

I am glad to see that you are released and are physically alright. Keep us up to date on everything, ok?

Ouch, dude...

I know it hurts when you've been betrayed like that, but like the others have said, you've got a community here that's willing to help if we can and life's got more to offer.

I don't have any easy solutions, but bear with it and remember you're not alone.

Been there, done that. Not fun.

Youre going to have everyone telling you to "Just get over it" and things of that nature, and to be honest, they are right. But its hard man, and a lot of guys have been through it too. I had a girl cheat on me that i had been with through almost all of high school and then i found out the end of my junior year and it was completely devastating.

I sulked around for about a year until i met my current girlfriend who i have been with for about a year now and couldnt be happier. Trust me, things will get better.

There is a light at the end of the tunnel, even if you cant see it at the moment.

You dont wanna be with that cheating whore anyways, more money can go to the GP now.

My girlfriend has cheated on me I think 7 times now in 3 years.

I've felt/seen/hurt just as you have.

I was admitted to Aurora Psychiatric of Wauwatosa for 1 week because I jumped into the local river trying to drown myself. (was actually my paren't s divorce that upset me but it's still suicide)


We're all here for you. This wasn't your fault so don't think like it was.


p.s. I envy the fact that you can throw a punch. In a fight, I'd be about as useful as a pool floaty...

sry to here that dude... there's plenty of girls out there.

Once you get to college you won't know where to go because there will be so many hot girls there, plus unlike high school where you HAVE to go... college has more girls that want to be there and that are smarter and probably more mature

i went through the same thing ... everything that you have ... you shouldnt have treated her like that though.

thanks guys, it helps but i forgot to mention that im still on house arrest on a bugus charge. thats the worst part, tht i cant even go anywhere. but i get off the 17th so maybe after then life will start to look up. and rook when is the spring ride? that kinda cheered me up a bit.

sorry to hear about the loss man, i would hate to think what would happen if that happend to me and my GF
but look at the bright side, you did kick some ass buddy!!

ps if yall wait till summer ill join you!!!! for the meet! it could be the start of the GP.net meeting

im really down for this meeting !! i cant wait ... hopefully i can go

yeah man, im gonna fight him again after the 17th that is if im still mad. prolly wont be prolly find someone else.

Why fight him? They're equally to blame, her mainly since she was still with you. Doing stuff like that is only going to make the issue worse and it won't help you in the long run.

yes fighting wont help.... girls love guys who respect them !!!! trust me but hey man only you can make the decision. but trust me if you do something you will regret it later dont let someting stuped like this ruin your future

true, alright, but rook when is the meeet/ride going to start?

trust me ... its not worth it

I'm sorry to hear your story. Like others have said, you will get over it. I know that is hard to understand at this point, especially since she is probably your first real girlfriend judging by your age. I keep telling my teenagers that high school flings are 99% short term. How many people marry someone they dated in High School, much less someone they met in HS. Actually, the earlier in life you deal with a cheating girl, the better off you are. You will see that 90% of women are evil, and 95% of us guys are jerks.

Forget her and have some alcohol and drug free fun with the guys. You don't need any chemicals running in your veins as you recover from this. In fact, realize that drugs and booze are always bad, especially at your age. I'm not saying never have a beer or two, just never use it when mad or depressed. I may sound like a broken record, but the sooner you learn to deal with the crap life sends your way without needing a vice (tobacco, drugs, alcohol) the better a person you will be. Life sucks, everyone knows that, it is up to you how little it sucks. Hopefully you have a relationship with your parents where you can all discuss these events, if not, a paster, counselor or another adult. You should realize your parents most likely went through the same thing you are going thru with your girl. I bet, right now they are hurt and probably trying to figure out where they went wrong with your attempted suicide.

Remember what Annie said, "Tomorrow, Tomorrow, I love you tomorrow, you're only a day away".

This event can shape you as a person, how it does is up to you.

Well Somernites begin 3rd week in April, but we could meet before then if the weather warms up. Any idea what the operation hours are for the dragstrip in Bowling Green? I've been wanting to do that for a long time.

Man, I wish I could get some time off to come out there and hang out for the run, but I guess that is what happens when you are in the military. You don't own your own life anymore. Hopefully by July things will start to slow down a little. I am planning on taking the whole month of August off to go on a cruise to the Bahamas with my wife. We never got a honeymoon, so this will kind of be a late one. Anyway, after the cruise and everything we are going to be in Ohio for a week or so. I will let you all know dates as it gets closer. Oh, also we will be in Ft. lauderdale, and Orlando in the beginning of August.

I didn't go through the gf phase but I did go through that other phase. I was late teens. Not sure why it was just a phase. Now 23, doing that just seems rediculous. Before I was going to try it I decided to try the military first. Then my parents found out I was thinking of the military and they stopped me. Things got better and now those thoughts never have come back. You'll be alright man. I am coming up on 3 years in about two months with my girlfriend. If anything did happen I know and have seen plenty of chicks I wouldn't mind calling you know. So there out there now is the time to go find you some fun! Go enjoy some new girlies!!

72Chev: well put.

97GPGT: dont fight. point was made when you whooped up on him the first time. find another way. like macramé or something.

buggy: where you at? Leonard Wood? you a 31 series? Im a 94 series.

Dude, I went through the same thing in high-school man! Had a g/f for 3 years, found out she cheated on me, we broke up, and man was I depressed. It took me a good 2 months to actually "get over it". But in the end, it was probably for the best. As much as "I loved her", I think it was better off. After the break-up, I finally got my license, got decent job, saved money, started college, and ended up getting the car I have always wanted; my GP! Sometimes, I wish we would cross paths and I would show her everything she has missed out on, but it's not even worth it. Now I got me a new g/f, she's outside sittin' in the driveway, that B**** costs money! haha.

But seriously, I hope you can get through this tough time. Time heals! (slowly) ...and all those other cliches (sp?) I def feel for ya man! (NO HOMO)lol

Taz: cliche(s). clique is a small exclusive group.

Yep, Wrong spelling, thanks!

I am actually in the Air Force, so I don't know what you mean by 31 series and whatnot. I am stationed at Whiteman Air Force Base in Knob Noster, MO. I am about 1 hour East of Kansas City.

ah, pardon, I thought FT Leonard Wood was the only thing we had in MO. I was spittin Army-speak.

Taz:

NO, that is cool. I just didn't get what you meant. Yeah, there is Ft. Leonardwood, Whiteman AFB, and I believe there is also an AFB in St. Louis. That might be on the Illinois side though. I am not sure. It's all good though.

man sorry about everything, just remember all the gp guys are here to support you, theres other women out there man, and you drive a gp, easy pickens

thanks for all the support guys, it really helps me, i just hope i can move on and forget this. hopefully find someone that i can truley be happy with and trust. and as for the ride. i cant wait. that will be very exciting, but there is another down time in my life in April. April 17th is my dads birthday, but he passed away 6 years ago, he was murdered and we still havent got any answers.

I feel for ya man, I was in the same situation 2 months ago, dated this girl i loved all through highschool, she went to University 45 minutes away, I drove down every weekend and knew something was goin on and if I questioned it she would get upset cause she didnt think I trusted her...we broke up, said she didnt have feelings for me anymore and 3 days later I find out shes been sleepin with him and they're dating. it's def not worth hurting yourself over though dude, much more to live for than just one pathetic unfaithful girl. really sorry to hear about your dad as well, that must be especially hard. I was watchin this video on break and thought it was just what you needed to get a good laugh, so check it out, you won't be disappointed.

dont see a link lol.

thanks man. everyone here is very supporting, im glad all the GP members helped me out. thanks alot to everyone of yall. i cant wait to meet yall in person. hoepfully i can meet everyone on this site one day

its another thread in this section. FUNNIEST video ever. NSFW

oh alrighty, got it, and replied

Man, she's not worth it plus there are alot more girls in the world to see. I know because I've been in your situation and thats why Im on probation until May 5, 2008 because of what happen a while back with this girl. Take care of yourself. I know its going to take a while to get over it but do what I do and get another girl that is into you. You can't put stress on yourself although I would of did the same thing far as the guy because im a violent person .

But like I said, eventually you will get over it and I know it hurts but just move on and don't say anything to her because that will give her something to tell her friends and women like to run stuff in the ground especially when its a group of them together.(I call them male bashers when they get in a group dicussion)

lol. thanks man, i was planning on doing more damage to him then i did, i wanted to rip his f-ing neck off.

nah don't do that man, just let it be, hard I know, we've all been in this situation but if you still fight him that shows to her that you still care about her, be the 'cool' guy and not the dirty sleazy one who stole a girl from an awesome guy. If you really want to hurt her feelings, which I know I did cause of what happened, then kickin his bum won't change whats happened, make it seem to her that you've moved on and that you don't care. This way she'll feel cheated too because she thought u cared about her and that you would put up a bigger fight. And man, play the single life for atleast a litle bit, 3 yrs is a long time to be gettin ur jewels wet by the same old tuna.

I know the feeling. I broke up with my ex-fience after over two years together, found out she cheated on my with my friend of all ppl. Needless to say thats unforgivable and it was hard, but thankfully we were not married. Its been over a year now and see that this is better this way.

Best thing to do is walk away from both of them. Ignore them, and move on. There are PLENTY of other fish in the sea. You will find more and go through some more heartaches before you find the right one. It gets better and easier as time moves on.

my recommendation? Live life for awhile. Then find a redheaded country girl from the middle of nowhere Texas. Thems are keepers.

What Rick said...you'll find Ms. Right sooner or later, but until then, date as many Ms. Right Nows as you can find, and enjoy your life!

Aside from that, instead of hitting him, I would've asked him how it felt to be just another tool in the box, and walked off, laughing...besides, who's to say she won't cheat on him with someone else? At any rate, it's not worth harming yourself over, trust me on that.

Once a cheater, always a cheater.

I know how that feels. You're not the first or last guy to go through that. You're young so think about all the women out there in the summer dressed lovely.

I'm not trying create any problem. I don't understand why you attack him if you don't know him. I don't get it why guy attack other guy who sleep with girl. It was clearly girl's fault but not stranger. I date girl few months who cheat on me but I don't know who is this guy. I don't attack him like that. He found out that she date with me so we both dump this girl. She lost two guys in same time. I have seen cheater show that guy attack other guy who don't know each other. It doesn't make sense to me.

yeah but his case is a little diff than yours. he was being all cocky about it, the guy in ur situation did the right thing.

97,

Remember it can always be worse. My sister In-law just divorced her husband of 20 years because he started cheating cause she couldn't have children.

Palsut

I believe that guys beat the other guys because of two things. One is primal instinct in the wild males battle for dominancy and the "right" to the herd. The other is they want to beat the girl but some form of chivalry prevents it.

I agree to the second one, Bob. The part about chivalry.

The first part, ya know, the part of males in the wild? Yeah. how many THOUSANDS of years has it been since we were no better than the monkeys that we come from?

Then again, I cant seem to offer up any better suggestions as to why, so I'll roll with it.

also, Bob, what is that watermark in your sig pic?

It's not chivalry, people just want to blame the stranger (has to do with denial I think). Women to the same thing when their boyfriend cheats: they blame the girl, not the boyfriend.

It's stupid, but that's how it works.

dude, we need to find a shrink that has a GP to get on here.

Boy, do we ever need a shrink...

We're SOL. They make too much money to be driving a GP.

What? A shrink? Just a bunch of psychobabble nonsense.

haha, i faught him because we had been friends for over 2 years. thats 1 reason why and another is because he was acting like he was a big shot, so i knocked him down a little on his Ego Trip.

Well, I guess it goes without saying, he wasn't too much of a friend, huh? Screw him man, don't give him the pleasure of knowing that he hurt you. Just carry on as if they were never in your life.

We could take a charity fund for you and get you a nice turbo kit and built tranny.

That way, at least you know your car will wtfpwn whatever he drives, and whatever his dad drives too

that would take all the pain away haha, if that ever happened, shoot idk how to repay everyone. lol.

Just remember, KARMA..... He will get whats coming to him and so will she....

That's true, but that doesn't mean we can't help karma out a little bit.

Sorry, but I don't have any sympathy for the girl or other guy. I'm all for spit-roasting both of them.

I'm glad YOU are ok though, dude. I've been hurt plenty myself, though not because she was a cheater.

Watch this video about this guy picking up this chick. I know this thread is a little sad, but maybe this will bring up some giggles.
Talking about Chivalry: Man meets ladies

1997GrandPrixGT: Thank goodness you didn't succeed with your attempts or you wouldn't be able to enjoy this 2008 TRX450 R or the loving from your Mother!!!

Thank for explain about everything. If I knew if it is your friend then I won't say anything about that. I just think it is silly to attack stranger but I guess that's life. It cannot be good if police are around so that's why I rather to be "nice" guy.

i think knocking his lights out is pretty good karma

haha, im going with ordonez it felt good to knock his F**king head offf. relieved alot of stress i had built of over time.