It does sound similar to the intake gaskets going. With the cat disconnected, pull your injectors fuse, take all your spark plugs out, and crank the engine over for a while. This will get most of the crap out of your cyclinders. Clean the spark plugs extremely well (torch them for a while if you can), put them back in, reinstall injector fuse (leave cat off... doesn't matter). Try to start it... if it starts and dies shortly after, you know you have coolant leaking into your intake and the gaskets are the problem. The lower the leak, the longer the engine will run for.