Acefighter: open the drivers side door, there is a little popout thingy, then you will see a thing with grey/silver lines and something plugged into it, mine was a PITA to get out because mine was farther down...
brandon: im not sure how to disable them but you could get a headlight delay harness, i think it's only like 15 bucks and then you dont have to worry about messing with chimes and unplugging fuses and what not... the harness delays the headlights long enough to not flash when unlocked or locked
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2000 GP GT 20's, altezzas, clears, F/M super 44's, some little blue L.E.D.s